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She is the practice owner of Couple Therapy That Works based in Asheville, NC. https://www.coupletherapythatworks.com/contact-me daily 0.75 2020-06-30 https://www.coupletherapythatworks.com/about-me daily 0.75 2020-04-11 https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5e459206e0667548e4be1bf8/1584384194525-WC3FMWA38I63BQRCFRMS/Paula+Zerfoss+EFT+couple+and+family+therapist.jpg About Me - Hi there! I’m Paula Zerfoss. I’m a licensed psychotherapist and a certified EFT therapist and supervisor. I’ve been working with couples for over 25 years. But what does that actually mean for you as my client? I’d like to share my story-both personally and professionally. As I often do, I’m going to take a unique path. 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